Kalin Art & Spirit

Healers Overcoming Rejection

“When you feel connected to everything, you also feel responsible for everything.” –Andrew Boyd

When you see the pain in the world you may want to ease it. It may grieve you terribly to see it- and you may even feel it within your Body and Soul. You may feel it is your responsibility to erase it or ease it. We must do what we can, but we must also be ready to acknowledge what is ours and what is not ours. There are boundaries to our energy and unfortunately, who we can help. Some people choose not to heal.

You may find it hard to turn away because you know your destiny is bound with the destiny of others. You have crossed paths for a reason. We are here to teach each other life lessons. And when we reach out to others and they refuse to take our hand, it’s confusing and hurtful.

Don’t take their rejection personally. You are only responsible for your Self. You must allow others to take responsibility for themselves. It empowers them to do so and to claim it as their own.

You must grow strong enough to realize that everyone walks their path at their own pace. Although you’d like to reach out and hold their hand and walk with you, where you are~ Not everyone is ready for that.

If you look ahead and see others ahead of you on the path you may want to be with them. That also hurts. You must hold compassion for yourself and honor your march as your own. Believe in your journey and keep moving to your own music.

Keep shining brightly. Be the light in the darkness, so that others who catch a glimpse of your love and light have a direction to follow.

We are ALL headed to the same light.

We will ALL get there, eventually.

We learn as much as our souls can handle in this life. At our own pace and timing.

It may take a few more lives to master.

But know this….. You are loved…… You are part of God.

You WILL find your way home.

Namaste’

#SelfCare #Patience #Solo #Caregivers #HealingHealers #Healing #Allowing #Peace

Posted January 18th, 2019.

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Posted October 30th, 2018.

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Posted October 25th, 2018.

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Posted October 22nd, 2018.

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Shadow work Oct 5-Nov 15, 2018

The Shadow is the ‘unclaimed’ part of our psyche that is alert and aware 24/7 because it resides in our Subconscious Mind. As children, we are programmed into our view of the World; it’s language, customs and our place in it. As adults, we can reflect on these programs and become “Aware” of them.

If you start to feel like a victim of your programs, stuck in a rut, without possibilities, I want to tell you that you can change ANYTHING, at ANY TIME!

If you’re interested in doing Shadow work, investigating this phenomenon via inward reflections, let me know.  Send me your Email request at KalinArtAndSpirit@gmail.com and I’ll send you the password. (Passwords keep out bots)

Thanks!

Posted October 21st, 2018.

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Posted October 16th, 2018.

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Posted October 15th, 2018.

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Posted October 12th, 2018.

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Posted October 10th, 2018.

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The Re-enchantment of everyday life~

WHAT DO WOMEN NEED?

Feminine Re-enchantment; Our high hopes and ambitions have been squelched, our income and housework chore inequality continues. We must embrace our wildness! Here are some ideas for these areas of life that we face:

Sex; sexual harassment, kids, responsibility for birth control and family management; kids’ autism and special needs, time management, chore patrol.

Self: emotional growth, empowerment of self, understanding the dynamics of others via Enneagram personality system. * Integrated Spiritual Practices

Responsibilities; Child and parental day care, home and pet care. Bills and manage resources promptly with adaptability, flexibility and with determined persistence. Ride that wave.

Pride; Establish a daily esteem routine hygiene. Organize your easy-care, durable, stylish clothes, Makeup, Hair, and accessories so they’re ready to go.

Power; Emotional daily routines. Say no firmly to set boundaries. Seek pleasure and joy. Empower your body with supplements, healthy habits, and moderate exercise. Work out emotional blocks with a yoga routine.

Passion; Establish Private daily routines where you create time to explore, discover, create, be quiet, and recharge. Have compassion for yourself.

Enneagram; helps you understand others behaviors, kids esp, and plan how to manage relationships; husband, parents, kids individually, pta moms, co-workers. Gather friends who feed your soul only.

Astrology annual cycles; plug into nature to reboot; walk in woods, falling leaves, snow time alone, spring flings, summer staycations. Watch the moon cycles, meteorites, sun cycles and important conjunctions from local astrologer. Affects all areas of life.

Time management; calendar, goal planning, daily log jam, weekly goals, monthly goals, delegating chores, lighten up on quality and quantity of cleanliness. Plan me time and we time. Hold family meetings where all are heard and weigh in according to age.

HEALTH; Pay attention to your hormonal balance, eat vegan/vegetarian or clean foods, get fewer shots, take supplements as a way to add to your quality of life. Check out your doctor/health plan options for alternative care. Follow up on routine visits.

Self Care; Boundaries, Deciding what must be, can be and may be. Put yourself first! To moderate what enters your emotional body is self-care. VIP. Select news and views, exercise your heart power and voice as you can. Join a women’s support group. Commit to helping others as you hear new strategies to help yourself.

Imagination breaks; Tarot cards, doodling, baking, cooking new menus, traveling to new places nearby and planning vacations. Create something that fills a void in others’ lives. Do charity work where you can.

MEN

Talk openly to others about deep matters.

Be vulnerable.

Touch others more, in loving, appropriate ways.

Accomplish something that you value each day.

Continue to learn thru life.

#DailyPractices #Enchantment #SelfCare #Boundaries #Esteem #Communication #HealthCare #Accomplishments #Meaning #Life #LifelongLearning #KeysToLivingWell

Posted October 17th, 2017.

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